[Divine Kimmy Is Ari Of Light's Blog]
Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many.No more Turning Away
2008-07-22
People might doubt what you say, but they will always believe what you do.
One might wonder why their reputation is always in question. Opinions are not formed by mindless chatter, but by observation of patterns and actions. Funny it isn't often we make judgments often after only a few seconds of meeting someone. We tend to make excuses, and hope that the poor first impression was just a fluke. Humans repeat patterns. And as I said earlier, unless these patterns are recognized as destructive to character, one will continue to blame everyone else for how they are perceived by others.
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Wake up, it's you!
2008-07-22
Why are we often surprised in certain situations that we experience failure, inspite of putting in our best efforts. At such times just blaming our fate will not help but what we need to do is to
check within ourselvesto see if we have something to change.
A friend shared this with me yesterday.
Every great storm throughout time eventually comes to a conclusion at some point and then the clear weather shows up and the new day begins......you will be fine as long as you
learn from the pastbad weather to protect yourself better in case there ever is another storm that is going to cross your path!
If we experience failure, it means some or the other weakness of ours is definitely working at that time. We need to check and recognize our weakness and be
constantly alert.If you seem to have the same problems all of the time, wake up, it's you!
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Man up to your fears
2008-07-21
When there is fear, there is some kind of danger, either for the self or for others. The one who fears, or the one who doesn't have the courage to accept and face situations, is not able to bring out the best form within himself. Such a person is constantly thinking of excuses and is trying to blame others for the mistakes that happen.
When I am able to take up responsibility for every situation that I am faced with, I am able to be free from worry or tension. I will then be in a position to learn and so I find progress at every step in my life. I also become an inspiration for all others too to bring about a positive change.
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I surrender, white flag
2008-07-19
Waving the white flag
This "making peace," mind you, is not an easy process. It's a painful process-so painful, in fact, that most persons will do just about anything to avoid it. And that's why, in order to be truly healed, you have to face your inner vulnerability without hiding behind blaming others. This painful process, if you stick with it courageously and faithfully, leads to the form of healing you can't get from a bottle, a pill, or anyone else.
What say you?
You didn't come here to prove your worth or to find a problem and fix it. You came to express your talents and abilities, to realize your dreams. How you interpret things plays a large part in shaping your behavior and how others treat you. Focusing on the negative dulls your energy and ability to cope. No matter how bad a situation seems, find something in it to appreciate. Ask yourself, what good could come from this? What can I learn here? The answers you get show you what to do next.
Grow up!
Life isn't about success or failure. Although both teach valuable lessons, fulfilling your potential is the essential goal. Adversity can develop strength. If a dream sours, let it go without judgment or remorse. Assume it's no longer relevant, and look for new options. Even a losing battle can be a stepping-stone to a better situation. Accepting change brings peace of mind.
Relationships are NOT perfect, WAKE UP!
Relationships are like jigsaw puzzles. All the pieces fit together to create the whole. You are not responsible for anyone else, nor are they for you. There's no guilt, no blame, no shame. Allow things to be as they are. Accept each moment as if you'd chosen it. If someone hurts you, look for what you can learn from it. Holding a grudge drains your energy. Forgiveness doesn't mean it was okay with you; it means releasing the person's power to upset you. You may never forget, but letting go of resentment is more productive. This goes double for forgiving yourself.
Move on
Only when you're at peace with yourself can you make a real contribution to anyone. Live your own truth, be honorable, and intend the best for everyone, including yourself.
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Tribute to a fallen Cubs fan
2008-07-18
First Cubs fan to sing during the 7th-inning stretch at Wrigley dies of cancer, Dustin Eglseder performed at 2007 game against Pittsburgh
Tribune staff report
GUTTENBERG, Iowa-An eastern Iowa man who won a contest to become the first Chicago Cubs fan to sing "Take Me Out to the Ballgame" at Wrigley Field has died from bone cancer.
Dustin Eglseder, 23, died Wednesday, July 16, in his Guttenberg home.
Mr. Eglseder was chosen from thousands of entrants in a contest to sing the song during the seventh-inning stretch against Pittsburgh on Sept. 21, 2007. He played third base in high school, but he also nurtured his voice in high school chorus and chamber choir.
"He stood up in front of 41,000 people and just nailed it," Cubs broadcaster Bob Brenly said at the time.
The Cubs organization then invited Mr. Eglseder and his family to a convention in Chicago in January. He again sang the classic baseball tune, this time to thousands of fans, coaches and players at the opening ceremony.
Mr. Eglseder also was invited by Cubs TV broadcasters to their Wrigley Field booth for an interview in April.
Mr. Eglseder was diagnosed with bone cancer in the spring of 2007, and he had surgery that May to have a bone removed from his right arm. Despite the surgery at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn., and chemotherapy at University Hospitals in Iowa City, the cancer returned. His arm was amputated in November.
Cubs shortstop Ryan Theriot was one of three Cubs players who called Mr. Eglseder before his surgery and stayed in touch with him afterward.
In a statement Thursday, Cubs spokesman Peter Chase said: "The Cubs were deeply saddened Wednesday to learn of the passing of Dustin Eglseder. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with Dustin's family and friends.
"Throughout his courageous battle with cancer, Dustin repeatedly told us watching the Cubs gave him great joy," Chase added.
"Dustin was an inspiration to thousands of people. He will live on in our hearts and continue to watch over and root for his Chicago Cubs."
God bless you and all your family and friends.
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Complaining and Self Pity
2008-07-18
This is one of the greatest energy wasters we have; we create our own environmental, health or psychological and relationship problems, then we complain about our state of affairs. We create cancer, mental diseases, government corruption, etc., yet we blame someone else for it, or life itself.
If something isn't working or there's a problem, forget guilt and self pity and instead build a strategy to work it out. Take all the energy away from victimhood, self importance, and self pity and put it directly into strategy. This brings enormous energy and personal power.
Personal responsibility means we own the messes we make, realize our mistakes and weaknesses, and ruthlessly work to eradicate our problems, with no excuses. There is no try, we either do or do not!
Try not to look at life as good and bad, yet as a living challenge to be met and grow strong from. We are here to learn from and witness this massive intelligent, mysterious universe.
Women, get a grip on your life, and men...MAN UP!
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Face it!
2008-07-17
Inner strength comes from facing problems rather than being avoiding them.
Whenever we face problems we tend to blame situations and people and feel that these problems have come to take away our power. We begin to wish for something to happen to change the situation so that we can be free from the problem itself. But it normally seems to take a long time before the situation changes.
The only way you can be free from the problem is to create a solution for it. The situaiton will not change on its own. This is what brings inner strength; because you will develop power within while working on the problems at hand.
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Click to give
2008-07-14
Usually it seems very difficult to give to others from whatever resources we have. The thought often arises in the mind that we cannot give because we are ourselves not complete or full. We find ourselves constantly trying to fill ourselves and we then have no time or thought for giving to those around us.
We have a lot of treasures within us which we can give to those around us, even if we have just a little and give to the others, we will find ourselves benefitting. For having given from whatever we have, we find that unseen treasures begin to increase within ourselves too.
Regarding the above link:
On average, over 220,000 individuals from around the world visit the site each day to click the yellow "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button. To date, more that 200 million visitors have given more than 300 million cups of staple food. Its grassroots popularity has been recognized with Web awards in the activism category - the 2000 Cool Site of the Year Award and the People's Voice winner at the 2000 Webby Awards.
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Too impatient to listen..is this you?
2008-07-13
When there is a misunderstanding in a relationship we hardly put in any effort in order to understand the other person. We tend to become impatient and we don't listen to the other person to understand them. Because of which we start inventing things about them. This only further increases the misunderstanding.
When we have a difference of opinion with someone, we need to give some time to understand and listen to the other person. Only then will we be able to understand the other person's point of view. This practice will enable us to finish any misunderstanding we have with others and bring harmony in relationships.
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Become Angels
2008-07-13
The more we become like angels, the more we give great gifts to the world. And the more we feel connected to this realm and others, the more ALIVE we are! The more we recogize ourselves in all people, in all life.
Stand up for the rights of angels everywhere. The downtrodden need angels most of all. Let them know they are not alone. Keep reminding them in whatever ways you can that their own angels are still alive and well, living inside of them.
If we all were a little more like angels, earth would be a little more like heaven.
An angel, like a butterfly, knows it is a great privilege to fly, even if only for a moment.
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Tied to your poor choices
2008-07-12
Excuses and justification over our behaviors are not meant to fool anyone but ourselves. And how healthy is that? No matter how much you convince yourself, your subconscious knows the truth. We look to many vices when we feel captured by our actions and decisions.
This is the common thread I share with the people I have tried to help. We change the outlook, in order to justify our actions. What we fail to learn, is no matter how you look at fantasy, it still is fantasy.
Many people say like is easier pretending to be someone they are not. Anyone who says this never tried to live two lives. It's hell. And takes way to much energy for me. Which is why I had to put my family first in order to focus in on which path I want to follow from now on.
Some truths/ideas that have come into my mind while posting this message.
1. It is what it is, no more, no less.
2. You make a choice to continue your journey. In a way I wish my friends were ignorant and stupid. Then I can say they didn't know any better. And I wouldn't feel so obligated to help them.
3. One soul, one life to live here on earth, and we only have to answer for our actions in the end. What about how we could affect the ones close to us?
If we are always putting ourselves first... we will end up alone, tied and shackled to our poor choices.
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Lighthouses, where the storms are
2008-07-11
Lighthouses aren't built in safe places. They choose to be where the storms are! You're not being punished. You're being taken to a difficult place to shine your light. Consider every day one where you have an opportunity to create light in a dark place. Spiritually, again, you're a light in a dark place and you wonder why you're there? It isn't always about you. Think about unenlightented people!!
You're not being punished, you're being given an opportunity. This is the work you came to do, and it's not forever. In a place you don't want to be, working with people you don't want to be with, is the work of a Lighthouse. What if you're the only light they ever see?
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Shine a light
2008-07-10
Posted on Jul 10th, 2008 by 
abutterflyloves
Good Morning everyone, have a wonderful day! May our light and energies shine and radiate each other!
Every time you turn on your light it affects the energy of everyone and everything that comes in contact with your radiance.
The more you shine your light in the spirit of peace and love, the better you will feel, and the more you feel better, the more that everything and everybody around you feels and responds in kind.
Conditions and circumstances improve instantly as you radiate from the inside out, your light.
love, Kimmy
An angel, like a butterfly, knows it is a great privilege to fly, even if only for a moment.
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On being content
2008-07-07
There are several keys that unlock the secrets to being truly content with not only what you have, but with yourself. Here are a few ideas to get you started in your own quest to contentment.
First, to find true contentment, you need to evaluate what in your life is preventing you from being content. Is it you don't like your house, your car isn't new, you don't like your job, not enough money, over weight etc... write these things down-all of them. Be honest with yourself, it is the only way.
Next, look at each one of these things in your life and ask yourself how YOU can make a positive change with each one of the things in your life causing your discontentment. For example, if your job is causing you discontent, is there something you can do at your job to make it more fulfilling? Perhaps you can ask for a raise or change your attitude about a certain co-worker. Go through EACH thing on your list and try to at least put a partial solution with it. This will take some time for sure. Do not get discouraged. Keep with it.
Now, make another list of all the things in your life that fulfil you and give you a sense of contentment. Think of your material possessions, your accomplishments, your family, friends, etc..
Everyday try to add to your list of things that give you contentment. Eventually, you will be moving things from your discontent list over to your contentment list.
Everyday try to read, focus, and dwell on your contentment list. Try to grow that list just as large as you can. Be thankful for that list. Read it often. After a while, your discontent list will be much small and your content list will be much larger and you will indeed feel more content.
Things You'll Need:
a journal
a pen
a few minutes each day
an open mind
a willing heart
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Without Liberty
2008-07-03
"Without liberty there is no such thing as real happiness. There may be the contentment of the slave -- of one who is glad that he has passed the day without a beating -- one who is happy because he has had enough to eat -- but the highest possible idea of happiness is freedom." -Robert Ingersoll
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Stop feeling sorry for yourself
2008-07-02
Things do not always go smoothly, coasting is a luxury that only lasts a short time. In spite of the challenges that we are faced with, we can learn from all that happens. With this learning we can experience change and intellectual growth. If not, we will only be caught up with the past as well as
lose the present.
When we find ourselves thinking about the past, or caught up with it, we need to stop feeling sorry for ourselves, stop blaming others, and redirect our thoughts towards a more positive light. We have to see if we have benefited in some way with the particular experience in your past. What could we have done differently, to have had a better outcome?
Don't ever forget we have the choice to learn from everything that happens.
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If you keep making that face
2008-07-01
When a person is angry, he or she is no longer open to hearing another view. Anger is a way of trying to have control over getting one's way. They don't want to hear the other's feelings, explanations, lectures, or logic. When they are angry, they may have no feelings of caring about the other person - they just want to control the person or the situation.
Most people, when yelled at, attacked, accused, or blamed, get triggered into defending and explaining - hoping to change the angry person's mind. It is as if the angry person has thrown out a hook and you bite. If it is someone who knows exactly what to say to you that hooks you into engaging in the conflict.
Yet engaging is exactly what feeds the flames. To diffuse the anger, you need to disengage. Disengaging means that you completely unhook yourself from the conflict.
Disengaging does not mean that you walk away in anger, muttering under your breath about how bad and wrong the other person is and how he or she can't treat you this way. It does not mean that you rehearse over and over what you are going to say to them next time you talk. Or leave ridiculous myspace or away messages to get one more dig.
Get yourself out of range of attack without shutting down your compassion for yourself or the other person. You are helping yourself to not take the other person's behavior personally by telling yourself that this is not about you - it is about whatever is going on with the other person.
Or if not, you might end up looking like Sith Lord Palpatine.
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To the Drama Queens, Destroy the Drama Llama
2008-06-30
Why I Shouldn't Be An OptimistNot everyone can handle my overbearing optimism in the face of adversity. Even if I had no survival story, people get worked up, frustrated, and irritated at the fact that I'm prancing around like I cured world hunger. And so what if I did? There are still people dieing for diamonds -- get back to work.
When I'm overly optimistic, I can't possibly cope with the realistic people in my life. They're talking about real things like drama and bs. I want to talk about hearts and butterflies, and frankly... nobody else cares.
Do I really want to walk around introducing myself to people when my head looks like a smiley face with a halo? Do I think people will take me seriously? Do I even want to keep making that happy face... you know, it could get stuck that way. ROFL!
It's because the pessimist does not expect great things to happen, so anything above average that occurs during their day-to-day feels like a huge victory. Being an optimist deprives you of this satisfaction.
Damn..and I thought being positive had it's advantages. Poor me.
(don't worry, I am giggling, and still very positive)
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Silent Treatment
2008-06-29
The Silent Treatment - the other end of a chilly silence Many of us have suddenly found ourselves at the other end of a chilly silence with no explanation. At the same time, many of us will recognize our own tendency to withhold our emotions rather than express them. Most of us have seen both sides of the withholding dilemma. It is a pattern that creates a breakdown in communication and understanding. No one deserves to be subjected to this. Feeling ignored, disrespected, or shut out, and to not know why, is a terrible feeling. The first thing to remember if this is happening to you is that you are not to blame. You are caught in someone else's pain pattern. This person does not know how to express feelings in a healthy way.
Don't feel guilty for failing as a mind reader. You can do your best to understand why this person clams up. But to expect you to figure things out on your own is unrealistic and exhibits poor communication skills on their part. If he or she keeps giving you the silent treatment every time your relationship hits a bump in the road, then maybe the relationship is better off silent.
The silent treatment is a form of control, which in turn is a form of abuse. Don't buy into it!
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What is a Soulmate?
2008-06-28
What is a Soulmate?
Time: 9:48:00 AM CDT
Author: abutterflyloves is Divine Kimmy Ari of Light
Soulmates are our soul family, the ones we do have many lifetimes and experiences with, who help us grow and evolve, create and dissipate karma. According to ancient wisdom, when the soul is "born" or descended from Source, it is created in a group. The souls in this group are our soulmates, ones who are very like us in frequency makeup. Then each of these souls is split into two, creating the twins.
A soulmate is someone you are close to at a soul level, and with whom you have had many shared experiences in different lifetimes, in various kinds of relationships; siblings, parent-child, best friend, as well as romantic relationships. There is a deep love for each other, and a spiritual bond that sets them apart from the superficiality of most other people in your life. Conversations are generally deep, about personal growth and service to make the world a better place. We can have many soulmates in our lives, and they come to us to help us grow spiritually.
Twin Flame reunions are the most fulfilling relationships we can enter into as humans, on all levels. However, twin flame couples have been extremely rare on the planet, and for good reasons. Despite this, we are finding that more and more twins are finding each other now, because of the acceleration of spiritual transformation and opportunities for soul evolution we are all experiencing.
However, many of these attempts at reunion are unsuccessful because the individual people are not quite ready for the intensity of a twin flame union. It is more intense than any other union, and this intensity is at a soul level, not as much in the physical or even emotional bodies. This doesn't mean that there isn't a good attraction at those levels as well, but the strongest attraction is of spirit. This is one of the distinguishing characteristics of a twin soul. Many people think they have met their twin because the attraction is so intense, but it is a karmic attraction, one of need or bodily desire rather than the Divine Love of twins.
When twins reunite, both of them experience an acceleration of their spiritual growth and awakening. Yet, there is a closeness and similarities of spirit that are almost uncanny, noticed in many ways, such as looking back at yourself when you look at your mate, and a remembering of the distant past when you first split up.
Their connection is telepathic, and hugging each other is like coming home for nourishment.
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Are you out of control
2008-06-20
 Are you out of control |
| Usually there is a tendency to leave things to destiny. When something goes wrong, we blame fate for it. Then we feel the situation to be totally out of our control, which prevents us from taking responsibility for our own life And we will not be able to work in any way for bringing about a change and improving the situation. Instead of blaming fate for whatever is happening, we need to take up responsibility for creating our own fortune for the future. When we have faith in ourselves, we will take up responsibility for our own life. We will then be able to work at making our each thought beneficial, contributing to our success, making a better future for ourselves. Posted by In Memory of Ari Squire Labels: abutterflyloves, Ari Squire, arioflight, control, destiny, determination, faith, responsibility, success For more like this : http://kimmysharinglight.blogspot.com/ |
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